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What is Gender Based Violence?

Gender-based violence is a function of gender inequality and an abuse of male power and privilege. It takes the form of actions that result in physical, sexual and psychological harm or suffering to women and children, or an affront to their human dignity, including threats of such acts, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of their liberty, whether occurring in public or private life.

It is men who predominantly carry out such violence and women who are predominantly the victims of such violence. By referring to violence as ‘gender based’ this definition highlights the need to understand violence within the context of women’s and girls’ subordinate status in society. Such violence cannot be understood, therefore, in isolation from the norms, social structure and gender roles within the community, which greatly influence women’s vulnerability to violence

The Scottish Government’s definition of gender-based violence, which is based on the United Nations Declaration on the Elimination of Violence Against Women: https://www.ohchr.org/en/instruments-mechanisms/instruments/declaration-elimination-violence-against-women

In an emergency always call 999

Ending Gender Based Violence

  • What is Gender Based Violence?

    Types of GBV

    Domestic abuse, also called domestic violence or intimate partner violence, is any pattern of behaviour that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. It encompasses all physical, sexual, emotional, economic and psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This is one of the most common forms of violence experienced by women and girls globally.

    Domestic abuse can include the following :

    Economic abuse – involves making or attempting to make a person financially dependent by maintaining total control over financial resources including the victim’s benefits, withholding access to money, forcing a victim to incur a debt, and/or forbidding attendance at school or employment.

    Psychological/Emotional abuse – involves causing fear by intimidation; threatening physical harm to self, partner or children; destruction of pets, livestock or property; “mind games”; “gas-lighting” or forcing isolation from friends, family, school and/or work; undermining a person’s sense of self-worth through constant criticism; belittling their abilities; name-calling or other verbal abuse; damaging a partner’s relationship with the children; or not letting a partner see friends and family.

    Physical Violence – involves hurting or trying to hurt a partner by hitting, kicking, choking/strangulation, burning, grabbing, pinching, shoving, slapping, hair-pulling, biting, denying medical care/contraception or forcing alcohol and/or drug use, or using other physical force. It may include property damage.

    Sexual Violence – involves forcing a partner to take part in a sex act when the partner does not consent. See more about sexual violence & consent below.

    Femicide, Honour Killing & Stalking

    Femicide – Femicide refers to the intentional murder of women because they are women or girls. Femicide differs from male homicide in specific ways. For example, most cases of femicide are committed by partners, ex-partners or other family members in cases of ‘Honour-killing’, and involve ongoing abuse in the home, threats or intimidation, sexual violence or situations where women have less power or fewer resources than their partner. Men kill one women every three days in the UK. Globally, on average, a woman or girl is killed by someone in her own family every 11 minutes. https://www.unodc.org/documents/data-and-analysis/statistics/crime/UN_BriefFem_251121.pdf.

    Honour Killing – Honour killing is the murder of a family member, usually a woman or girl, for the purported reason that the person has brought dishonour or shame upon the family. These killings often have to do with sexual purity, and supposed transgressions on the part of female family members. They are not limited to one specific religion or faith.

    Stalking – Stalking can include a number of behaviours including following someone; watching or spying on someone; contacting or attempting to contact a person by any means; publishing material about someone without their consent; monitoring someone’s phone, internet, email or other form of communication; loitering in a public or private place; interfering with someone’s property; leaving unwanted gifts or notes for someone. Two or more incidents of such behaviour with the intent to cause distress to the victim constitutes a crime in Scotland.

    Sexual Violence/Assault

    Sexual violence –Sexual violence is any sexual act committed against the will of another person, either when this person does not give consent or when consent cannot be given because the person is a child, has a mental disability, or is severely intoxicated or unconscious as a result of alcohol or drugs. Any use of threat, violence or other form of coercion to persuade someone to submit is automatically non-consensual in Scotland. Consent can be withdrawn at any time during sexual activity.

    Rape/Sexual Assault – Rape/Sexual Assault is any non-consensual vaginal, anal or oral penetration of another person with any bodily part or object. This can be by any person known or unknown to the survivor, within marriage and relationships, and during armed conflict.

    Human trafficking – Human trafficking is the acquisition and exploitation of people, through means such as force, fraud, coercion, or deception. This crime ensnares millions of women and girls worldwide, many of whom are then sexually exploited.

    Sexual harassment – Sexual harassment encompasses non-consensual physical contact, like grabbing, pinching, slapping, or rubbing against another person in a sexual way. It also includes non-physical forms, such as catcalls, sexual comments about a person’s body or appearance, demands for sexual favours, sexually suggestive staring, or exposing one’s sex organs.

    Female genital mutilation – Female genital mutilation (FGM) includes procedures that intentionally alter or cause injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons. It is classified into four major types, and both the practice and the motivations behind it vary from place to place. FGM is a social norm, often considered a necessary step in preparing girls for adulthood and marriage and typically driven by beliefs about gender and its relation to appropriate sexual expression. FGM is illegal in the UK and it is also illegal to arrange for it to be carried out abroad.

    Online or Digital Violence

    Online or digital violence against women refers to any act of violence that is committed, assisted or aggravated by the use of information and communication technology (mobile phones, the Internet, social media, computer games, text messaging, email, etc) against a woman because she is a woman. Online violence can include the following.

    Cyberbullying – Cyberbullying involves the sending of intimidating or threatening messages.

    Non-consensual sexting – Non-consensual sexting involves the sending of explicit messages or photos without the recipient’s consent.

    Non-consensual Sharing of Intimate Images (“Revenge Porn”) – Non-consensual Sharing of Intimate Images is the sharing of private, sexual materials, either photos or videos, of another person without their consent and with the purpose of causing embarrassment or distress.

    Doxing – Doxing involves the public release of private or identifying information about the victim.

    https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/ending-violence-against-women/faqs/types-of-violence

    Forced/Child Marriage


    Forced Marriage 
    – Forced marriage is where one or both parties to the marriage do not or cannot consent to it and pressure or abuse is used to force them into the marriage. Forced marriage is illegal in Scotland, as is taking someone abroad to get them married against their will. Forced marriage should not be confused with the voluntary, legal practice of arranged marriage.

    Child marriage – Child marriage refers to any marriage where one or both of the spouses are below the age of 16. Girls are more likely to be child brides, and consequently drop out of school and experience other forms of violence. Childbirth can be especially dangerous for girls who have not finished growing.

    Equally Safe in Scotland


    Combating GBV in Scotland 
    Equally Safe is the national strategy to combat violence against women & girls. (https://www.gov.scot/policies/violence-against-women-and-girls/equally-safe-strategy/

    The strategy focuses on the need for prevention of violence. It also sets out how we will develop a performance framework to determine whether we are realising our ambitions.

    Equally Safe’s priorities are:

    • Achieving greater gender equality
    • Intervening early and effectively to prevent violence and maximising the safety and wellbeing of women, children and young people
    • Tackling perpetrators

    Equally Safe at Work https://www.equallysafeatwork.scot/ Email: info@closethegap.org.uk Tel: 0141 572 4730 Supporting employers to advance gender equality and prevent violence against women

    Equally Safe at School https://www.equallysafeatschool.org.uk/ Equally Safe at School has been developed for secondary schools to help them take a whole school approach to preventing gender-based violence, with staff and students working together with a shared understanding and commitment to equality and safety for all, run by Rape Crisis Scotland 0141 331 4180 (Monday-Friday, 9.00am-4.00pm

  • Help and Support For People

    Moray Specific Support Services

    Police: 999 – If you are in immediate danger please call Police Scotland for emergency help.

    Moray Women’s Aid: 01343 548549 or admin@mwaelgin.co.uk   Moray Women’s Aid is the largest provider of support services to women and children experiencing Domestic Abuse/Violence throughout rural Moray. Services include provision of safe accommodation both at Marleon House and within the community, community support, professional counselling and drop-in centres.

    Moray Women’s Aid Children & Young People’s Service: 01343 548 550 or admin@mwaelgin.co.uk

    Moray Rape Crisis: 01343 550 407 or contact@morayrapecrisis.scot  Free and confidential information and support for anyone (age 11 and over) in Moray affected by any form of sexual violence

    National Support Services

    Disclosure Scheme for Domestic Abuse Scotland: https://www.scotland.police.uk/advice-and-information/domestic-abuse/disclosure-scheme-for-domestic-abuse-scotland/ or call 101 The Disclosure Scheme for Domestic Abuse Scotland (DSDAS) gives people the right to ask about the background of their partner. It also allows concerned relatives, colleagues and friends to ask about someone’s partner. They can ask if they have been abusive in the past – if so, the police will tell their new partner without naming the person who made the disclosure request.

    Scotland’s Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline: 0800 027 1234 https://www.sdafmh.org.uk/en/ or helpline@sdafmh.org.uk.  Helpline offering support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for anyone with experience of domestic abuse or forced marriage, as well as their family members, friends, colleagues, and professionals who support them. Run by Scottish Women’s Aid https://womensaid.scot/ the lead organisation in Scotland working towards the prevention of domestic abuse. Legal information, policy documents and research findings available on the website.

    Rape Crisis Scotland (for women or men): https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/help-helpline/ Email: support@rapecrisisscotland.org.uk  Call: 08088 01 03 02 Text: 07537 410 027 Rape Crisis Scotland is Scotland’s leading organisation working to transform attitudes, improve responses and ultimately to end rape and sexual violence in all its forms. The national helpline, offering support and information for anyone affected by sexual violence, is open daily from 5pm – midnight, 365 days a year and supports people of all genders living in Scotland aged 13+

    NSPCC Female Genital Mutilation Helpline: https://www.nspcc.org.uk/what-is-child-abuse/types-of-abuse/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/ If you’re worried a child is at risk of or has already had FGM you can call the free, anonymous dedicated FGM helpline 0800 028 3550 or email fgm.help@nspcc.org.uk.

    The Sexual Assault Response Coordination Service (SARCS)https://www.nhsinform.scot/sarcs is a dedicated NHS service which can offer healthcare and support in the days after an assault If you have been raped or sexually assaulted and do not want to tell the police or are unsure about telling them now – you can self-refer to a SARCS. This means you don’t need a GP or other healthcare professional to refer you to a SARCS – you can do this yourself 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 0800 148 88 88

    TARA (Trafficking Awareness Raising Alliance): https://www.tarascotland.org.uk/ 0141 276 7724 provides support to women over 18, who have been trafficked for the purposes of commercial sexual exploitation.

    SHAKTIhttps://shaktiedinburgh.co.uk/  0131 475 2399 info@shaktiedinburgh.co.uk  Help for black minority ethnic (BME) women, children and young people who are experiencing, or who have experienced, domestic abuse. May also provide help to those who are subject to the No Recourse to Public Funds (NRPF) rule in Scotland.

    Encompass: https://www.encompassnetwork.info/ Scotland’s network supporting women involved in the sex industry

    National Ugly Mugs Network: https://nationaluglymugs.org  Freephone (sex workers): 0800 464 7669 admin@nationaluglymugs.org  UK-wide charity working with sex workers – register for free to report incidents and receive warnings about dangerous individuals.

    Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse: Trauma Counselling Line Scotland – http://www.health-in-mind.org.uk/services/counselling/tcls.html offers a confidential telephone counselling for adult survivors of childhood abuse in remote rural areas, with a disability or from a racially minoritised community. 08088020406 hello@health-in-mind.org.uk 

    Stalking – https://followitapp.org.uk/ – FollowItApp is designed to help victim-survivors of stalking record what’s happening to them & is tailored to Scotland’s law.

    Action against Stalking https://www.actionagainststalking.org/   Support@actionagainststalking.org  or Stalking Helpline: 0800 820 2427 Provide a throughcare support service for victims of stalking.

    Military – Soldiers’, Sailors’ & Airmen’s Families Association (SSAFA): https://www.ssafa.org.uk/ Tri-service welfare support including refuge accommodation for those fleeing domestic abuse.

    Legal – Scottish Women’s Rights Centrehttps://www.scottishwomensrightscentre.org.uk/ – can offer free and confidential legal advice and advocacy support to victim-survivors of VAWG in Scotland.

    Primary Prevention – Zero Tolerance: https://www.zerotolerance.org.uk/  info@zerotolerance.org.uk, 07826 558 090 – charity working to prevent men’s violence against women by tackling its root cause: gender inequality.

  • Guidance For Professionals

    Moray-Specific Support Services


    Police: 999 
    – If you are in immediate danger please call Police Scotland for emergency help.

    Moray-specific support services

    Moray Women’s Aid: 01343 548549 or admin@mwaelgin.co.uk   Moray Women’s Aid is the largest provider of support services to women and children experiencing Domestic Abuse/Violence throughout rural Moray. Services include provision of safe accommodation both at Marleon House and within the community, community support, professional counselling and drop in centres.

    Moray Women’s Aid Children & Young People’s Service: 01343 548 550 or admin@mwaelgin.co.uk

    Moray Rape Crisis: 01343 550 407 or contact@morayrapecrisis.scot  Free and confidential information and support for anyone (age 11 and over) in Moray affected by any form of sexual violence

    National Support Services

    Disclosure Scheme for Domestic Abuse Scotland: https://www.scotland.police.uk/advice-and-information/domestic-abuse/disclosure-scheme-for-domestic-abuse-scotland/ or call 101 The Disclosure Scheme for Domestic Abuse Scotland (DSDAS) gives people the right to ask about the background of their partner. It also allows concerned relatives, colleagues and friends to ask about someone’s partner. They can ask if they have been abusive in the past – if so, the police will tell their new partner without naming the person who made the disclosure request.

    Scotland’s Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline: 0800 027 1234 https://www.sdafmh.org.uk/en/ or helpline@sdafmh.org.uk.  Helpline offering support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for anyone with experience of domestic abuse or forced marriage, as well as their family members, friends, colleagues, and professionals who support them. Run by Scottish Women’s Aid https://womensaid.scot/ the lead organisation in Scotland working towards the prevention of domestic abuse. Legal information, policy documents and research findings available on the website.

    Rape Crisis Scotland (for women or men): https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/help-helpline/ Email: support@rapecrisisscotland.org.uk  Call: 08088 01 03 02 Text: 07537 410 027 Rape Crisis Scotland is Scotland’s leading organisation working to transform attitudes, improve responses and ultimately to end rape and sexual violence in all its forms. The national helpline, offering support and information for anyone affected by sexual violence, is open daily from 5pm – midnight, 365 days a year and supports people of all genders living in Scotland aged 13+

    NSPCC Female Genital Mutilation Helpline: https://www.nspcc.org.uk/what-is-child-abuse/types-of-abuse/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/ If you’re worried a child is at risk of or has already had FGM you can call the free, anonymous dedicated FGM helpline 0800 028 3550 or email fgm.help@nspcc.org.uk.

    The Sexual Assault Response Coordination Service (SARCS)https://www.nhsinform.scot/sarcs is a dedicated NHS service which can offer healthcare and support in the days after an assault If you have been raped or sexually assaulted and do not want to tell the police or are unsure about telling them now – you can self-refer to a SARCS. This means you don’t need a GP or other healthcare professional to refer you to a SARCS – you can do this yourself 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 0800 148 88 88

    TARA (Trafficking Awareness Raising Alliance): https://www.tarascotland.org.uk/ 0141 276 7724 provides support to women over 18, who have been trafficked for the purposes of commercial sexual exploitation.

    SHAKTIhttps://shaktiedinburgh.co.uk/  0131 475 2399 info@shaktiedinburgh.co.uk  Help for black minority ethnic (BME) women, children and young people who are experiencing, or who have experienced, domestic abuse. May also provide help to those who are subject to the No Recourse to Public Funds (NRPF) rule in Scotland.

    Encompass: https://www.encompassnetwork.info/ Scotland’s network supporting women involved in the sex industry

    National Ugly Mugs Network: https://nationaluglymugs.org  Freephone (sex workers): 0800 464 7669 admin@nationaluglymugs.org  UK-wide charity working with sex workers – register for free to report incidents and receive warnings about dangerous individuals.

    Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse: Trauma Counselling Line Scotland – http://www.health-in-mind.org.uk/services/counselling/tcls.html offers a confidential telephone counselling for adult survivors of childhood abuse in remote rural areas, with a disability or from a racially minoritised community. 08088020406 hello@health-in-mind.org.uk 

    Stalking – https://followitapp.org.uk/ – FollowItApp is designed to help victim-survivors of stalking record what’s happening to them & is tailored to Scotland’s law.

    Action against Stalking https://www.actionagainststalking.org/   Support@actionagainststalking.org  or Stalking Helpline: 0800 820 2427 Provide a throughcare support service for victims of stalking.

    Military – Soldiers’, Sailors’ & Airmen’s Families Association (SSAFA): https://www.ssafa.org.uk/ Tri-service welfare support including refuge accommodation for those fleeing domestic abuse.

    Legal – Scottish Women’s Rights Centrehttps://www.scottishwomensrightscentre.org.uk/ – can offer free and confidential legal advice and advocacy support to victim-survivors of VAWG in Scotland.

    Primary Prevention – Zero Tolerance: https://www.zerotolerance.org.uk/  info@zerotolerance.org.uk, 07826 558 090 – charity working to prevent men’s violence against women by tackling its root cause: gender inequality.

  • Moray Violence against Women & Girls Partnership

    The Partnership


    The Moray Violence against Women & Girls Partnership (MVAWGP) is dedicated to tackling gender-based violence in all its forms and coordinating services from voluntary and statutory agencies to ensure appropriate support is provided to those affected by it.

    The forum recognises that partnership working is essential for a comprehensive response to VAWG. A multi-agency response is essential to adequate monitor & intervene with perpetrators, safeguard survivors and take steps to prevent it happening in the first place.

    MVAWGP – Violence Against Women and Girls

    The Moray Violence against Women and Girls Partnership (MVAWGP) has adopted the Scottish Government definition which identifies violence against women and girls (VAWG) as follows:

    Gender based violence is a function of gender inequality, and an abuse of male power and privilege. It takes the form of actions that result in physical, sexual and psychological harm or suffering to women and children, or affront to their human dignity, including threats of such acts, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of their liberty, whether occurring in public or private life. 

    It is men who predominantly carry out such violence, and women who are predominantly the victims of such violence. By referring to violence as ‘gender based’ this definition highlights the need to understand violence within the context of women’s and girls’ subordinate status in society. Such violence cannot be understood, therefore, in isolation from the norms, social structure and gender roles within the community, which greatly influence women’s vulnerability to violence

    MVAWGP will develop an outcomes based approach to its work, in line with the national ‘Equally Safe’ Strategy. The most recent Delivery Plan was compiled after the Partnership’s May 30th 2022 Development Day and covers 2022-2025.

    It is recognised that the abuse perpetrated against women & girls is much wider than physical violence so the word “violence” referred to in the business of the MVAWGP encompasses, but is not limited to:

    • Physical, sexual and psychological abuse occurring in the family, within the general community or institutions, including: domestic abuse, coercive and controlling behaviours, rape & sexual assault, incest and child sexual abuse
    • Sexual harassment and intimidation at work and in the public sphere
    • Cyber violence against women
    • Commercial sexual exploitation, including prostitution, pornography and trafficking
    • Child, early and forced marriage 
    • So-called ‘Honour-based’ crimes, including dowry-related violence & female genital mutilation

    This does not deny that women use violence and coercive control against a male or female partner. It also does not deny that men use violence and control against other men, including male partners. It simply recognises that women are disproportionately disadvantaged because of the abuse they experience. 

    The terms ‘women’ and ‘girls’ will be used in the context of business relating to the MVAWGP. It is acknowledged that a person’s internal sense of gender may differ from their sex as assigned at birth. The terms therefore refer not only to cisgender women and girls (whose gender identity reflects the sex assigned at birth) but also includes sexual/gender minorities – terms that refer to individuals whose sexual orientation is outside the heterosexual mainstream and whose gender identity/expression does not fit into the distinct categories of male or female, or cisgender. This encompasses transgender identities, as well as those exhibiting a non-conforming expression of gender. MVAWGP believe that trans-women are women. 

    Working collaboratively with key partners across all sectors, the MVAWGP aims to eradicate violence against women in Moray. The Partnership seeks to make it a place where women and children can – with support when necessary – live free from the inequalities and harm associated with gender-based violence in accordance with: the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women 1979; the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child 1989; the Human Rights Act 1998; the Council of Europe Convention on preventing and combating violence against women and domestic violence 2011 (Istanbul Convention); and the Scottish Government Equally Safe Strategy 2014.

    The MVAWGP aims to:

    Ensure that gender inequality is integrated into the planning processes of partner agencies

    • Raise public awareness of violence against women and ensure that its related harms are better understood
    • Work with children and young people to challenge attitudes towards violence against women
    • Influence public attitudes so that people no longer tolerate violence against women
    • Encourage and support all partner agencies to take into account the views of women and children in families affected by violence against women when developing services
    • Strive to achieve a policy of co-operation and co-ordination of services between agencies
    • Identify gaps in service provision and make recommendations for the development of future services in Moray
    • Ensure that sufficient training is provided to staff from all agencies so that they can recognise violence against women and give appropriate support to those affected
    • Reduce the extent and impact of violence against women and on those affected in the family and wider community
    • Develop mechanisms whereby perpetrators can be held accountable for their behaviour
    • Develop and monitor the delivery of a Delivery Plan in line with the Scottish Government Equally Safe Strategy  

    The Current Chairperson is: Detective Chief Inspector Caroline Gray

    Caroline.Gray2@Scotland.police.uk 

    The Partnership email is: vawgpartnership@moray.gov.uk